My daughter is 9 years old and a grub. Alarmingly, she is quite happy to admit to this.
She leaves a vast array of detritus around her as she goes. Clothes are left wherever they fall, plates and cups pile up in impossibly high, wobbly heaps on her desk, along with things torn from magazines that she intends to pin on her walls but never does. Textas (always without their lids), are scattered under her bed, along with half-started stories or letters to friends. Her found collection spills out from under there too, so it’s not uncommon to stand on a pine cone, a shell or a conker when in her room. I genuinely fear something might be growing in her hair which she refuses to brush. Her toys, books, and DVDs can be found around the house in any place other than where they should be. In fact every item Grace possesses is never to be found where it belongs. I found her ipod in her father’s sock drawer the other day. My darling daughter is like Pippi Longstocking on steroids. This messiness (which I prefer to think of as misguided creativity) runs counter to every other aspect of her personality. It amuses and exasperates me in equal measure. How to encourage her to keep things where they belong?
So, I announced one morning, “If you clean your room and pick up after yourself for one week, I’ll let you paint your bedroom any colour you wish. I will also buy you a new duvet cover.” You need to know that this statement was extremely brave, as her favourite colours are a horrid bright blue or a hideous shade of musky purple. I added, “I will also provide you with something very special to put upon your walls if and when you manage to sort out all your DVDs and keep the lid on the toothpaste for 7 consecutive days. It worked. She set about cleaning like a girl possessed. We removed 6 garbage bags of “things” from her room. She swept, she vacuumed, she sorted, she pfaffed. She chose a duvet cover from Laura Ashley and from that moment, the bed was made every morning. The toothpaste squeezed beautifully out of its tube for 7 days straight. And so (sigh) I headed to the paint shop in search of bright blue. Thankfully we settled on only the ceiling being painted the colour of a budgerigar.
Whilst she was at school, I also unpacked the ‘birds on a wire’ decal that Bright Star Kids had sent me to trial. To be honest, I didn’t really think I’d be able to use them. They seemed, well, a little too babyish for a 9 year old. How wrong I was. Together, Grace and I stuck on the plastic wire and then had fun positioning the birds atop. The effect is quite stunning. To quote Grace, “I really really love the birds the most of all about my room now. They look like they are popping out of the wall. Each night I imagine that one might land on my shoulder.” I love that her room feels like a little bit of nature has found its way inside. We are now 22 days in, and her room has remained spotless. Although, I still find the occasional pine cone on the floor or a One Direction picture waiting to be pinned up. Every day though, I thank the birds for finding the grub in my daughter and gobbling it up.
Bright Star Kids has two wall decals (RRP AUD $44.95 each) to give away. They have several patterns and styles to choose from. They are dead simple to apply and can be moved (reapplied) regularly without damaging your wall. Grace and I are smitten with hers.
For your chance to win one of the decals, simply leave a comment here, telling me which decal you’d choose and why. Oh, and I’d love to hear how you manage the grub in your family too. Competition is open worldwide and will close 17 October. Be quick!
Until next time…
Reika Roberts says
I think I’ll apply the ‘misguided creativity’ to my boys as well.
Libby-Jane says
It looks amazing! I love that Grace imagines the birds popping off the wire to come and visit her…that little mind is always racing. Id choose the birds on a wire for my Dash because although he is the only kid that doesnt have to share a room, his is the only room in our house where you can’t see the trees/birds (window faces the playroom!)
Amanda says
I TOTALLY relate to the ‘misguided creativity’ as well 🙂
As for my choice of fab wall art… I am torn between the Giant Eiffel Tower – perfect for the pre-teen, wannabee fashion tsar’s pink and black retro meets graffitti grunge bedroom decor – or the Word Tile stickers – perfect for those affirmations (but more likely a homage to numerous pocket sized teen music superstars).
Given that we rent, I am baulking at painting the room (and repainting when we vacate) – a GREAT excuse to avoid those ghastly paint shades that are in favour, so I am trying all manner of ‘temporary’ decor options to inject some personality, and this is a perfect (and inexpensive) addition to the changing whims of this age group
Eleanor Jodway says
Well, I have two grown Male Grubs….and if nothing has cured them by now; nothing ever will! LOL Least of all, decals on the wall…oh unless they’re of Girls hal….well, let’s not go there! I LOVE the birds tho Caro, and would have adored having Grace’s room as a young girl! I found a Wonderful Family Tree idea recently thatI posted….and I may try that soonish. Not sure if You saw it on y wall, but I’ll tag You with it!
Sooze says
I love the Birds on a wire! Does that make me a baby too? 😉
I think it could be quite grown up in the right room. Wish I had the right room…..
Love this post. There is more than a little ‘grub’ in me too but I pick up after myself. Eventually.
Teri says
Well done! Beautiful room.
Tips on how to clean up a 19 year old boy, very welcome (but not expected)
Caro&Co says
Teri and Amanda, please contact me via email. You’ve been selected as the two winners of this little comp! x
Michelle says
I’d choose the Princess Chandelier Wall Sticker because it would light up my childs room and I wouldn’t have to change the light bulbs !
Charley says
Obviously im too late to be w inner but id choose the tree branches. It is a good job you only had to paint the ceiling blue. You could put some glow in the dark constellations on it? Tess and Harry have a nice selection of both hemispheres including the southern cross and the saucepan. In the dark their room resembles a night at sea with Cornish trawlers and mackerel hanging from the ceiling, glow in the dark constellations lit up by a multicoloured fairly light projection thats a bit like the northern lights. Which is just as well as detracts from all the mess that surrounds their little beds! Your Grace and my girls would get along fine! Hope you are all well x